Vekerdy: A few tips for anesthetizing your child

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The general tendency is for today's children to fall asleep. How much trouble is that? What is worth doing? A few helpful tips from Tamás Vekerdy on child psychology.

Vekerdy: A few tips for anesthetizing your child

"I envy my friend, who says she just puts down her three and a half-year-old boy and even sleeps," reads a parent's letter to Toddlers and Lovers in this book. maybe because they have three kids, and when their dad comes in they play a little bit, but they want it too. Many times there is fire, there are fire by the time kids come to life, but my biggest son, he and I need to stay on the edge of your bed, I have to hold my handuntil he goes to sleep. Many times I get so tired that I fall asleep and I fall asleep sooner than she. Of course, I still wake up and try to talk to my husband a bit, but by the time I get there, he often sleeps. What have I done wrong? What do we do wrong? The biggest kid has always had trouble falling asleep, so he used to one of us is always with himuntil he goes to sleep. I have tried to come out, but then I will soon find that he can not sleep, and if you then insist that you try and maybe end up, make you upset and harder to fall asleep. There were times when we were asleep and didn't even wake up when we were transferred to her bed, but she was awake at night. And then he had to be anesthetized just to stay there. After going to bed, there is a fairy tale, he likes this, he even asks two or three more, he could pull it to the end. What can we do? "

Tamás Vekerdy's answer: Children are diverse

Kids are diverse. One easily falls asleep, the other difficult. But then the principle is that the child has to get used to it from the beginning I wake him down and sleep alonelike sucking your finger, clutching a baby or a teddy bear, it is also perfectly valid.Of course, you also know that when laying is not "on time", it is much harder for children to fall asleep. sometime in the evening between seven and eight o'clock they suddenly get blurred, they move more ferociously, they are easier to shave, and so on. This would actually be the time of laying, in which case the child would become tired and usually fall asleep easily and willingly. It gives you countless signs, gets your finger on it, climbs up on the couch, blinks big ... If you don't go into it, you will soon be able to "put yourself out there" because it can survive. Of course, evening games also contribute to this, as do two-three or even more fairy tales. It's a fairy tale! We've often talked about how the sleep quality of children changes five and a half times a night. If the child feels that his or her environment is awakening, as if he or she had fallen asleep, and then the outbursts come. If the child gets used to falling asleep, he or she will have confidence and peace of mind. he knows he can fall asleep. (Бltalбban: the more everything a child does unintentionally, the calmer, more confident!) Can I stop a kid who gets used to lying next to him or holding his hand before he falls asleep? And if so, how should you in any case try to previous laying introduce. Of course it's not easy, I know, but it can change the whole evening in your own good sense. The children will be relaxed the other day, but they will become tired at first, which again will make their earlier sleep easier. And parents also have something small in the evening to make them feel better, which can have an effect on the kids, and parents, too, don't start to feel anxious as the evening goes on. I would do it secretly and surprisingly, but talk to the kids or the kid who wants to make our evenings so much. It doesn't matter that if the child doesn't seem to pay much attention to what I am saying, he / she is not interested, and I should say it again and, if necessary, repeat it in the evening. I could say it all depends on that! This is the secret of success. Of course, this determined resolution does not mean that I "order" the child (it is ineffective) or even threaten (it is worse) but that I have a determined image and consciousness that now and I'm "sure" that it will sooner or later. And I'll talk to the kid about it, kindly, asking for cooperation. And patiently. I'm not in a hurry! But I work hard on it. (Source: Tamás Vekerdy: Little Kids - School).

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